I LOVe sparkpeople.com!! Great site and the ladies are correct, it takes time and effort. If thee were something 'magical' or 'easy' none of us would have any weight to lose! Just remember to stay positive and just because you have a bad day and eat wrong doesn't mean it's over. Give yourself a break and start fresh the next day. Less calories in + exercise = weight loss
While you might think that losing a few pounds before your Big Day will help you look *~PiCtUrE pErFeCt~*, crash dieting can wreak havoc on your life, according to Charlie Seltzer, M.D., a weight-loss specialist based in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, and Hilary Silver, a licensed therapist and relationship expert based in Denver, Colorado. Here's why you shouldn't cut calories like crazy before you walk down the aisle:
"I encourage people to cycle their fat burners," Kendall explains. "People are typically on a fat burner for 4-6 weeks. Once your body gets used to it, you're not going to see the same increase in fat oxidation or increase in metabolic rates. By stopping using your fat burner every now and then, you make sure it will still help you lose belly fat."

You deserve that glass of Scotch or wine, we know. But the unfortunate truth is that your body doesn’t metabolize alcohol as efficiently as you age. So, not only are you going to add on (or not be able to lose) weight because of alcohol, you also wind up looking older and sleeping worse. “[As you age] it will be increasingly difficult to get a good night’s rest with alcohol in your system and sleepless nights lead to carb and sugar cravings the next day,” says registered dietitian Martha McKittrick in 30 Foods You Should Never Eat After Age 30. Meanwhile, alcohol zaps moisture from your skin making fine lines more noticeable and speeding up your skin’s loss of elasticity.
Although you do want to increase your walking over time, this doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to be working your way up to a more intensive form of cardio like swimming or running. “Moving on to new exercises is not something someone should feel they have to do unless their goals change and a new exercise is needed to support those goals,” says Gagliardi. “Walking alone can be progressed by changing the distance, speed, terrain, and by adding intervals.”
If you eat healthy and exercise regularly and still can’t lose weight, your thyroid might not be working like it should. This happens in about 5% of people, and it's most common in women and people over 60. In addition to weight gain, it can also cause fatigue, joint or muscle pain, and depression. Medications can help, so get it checked if you think it might be an issue.
“Has something happened — a change in relationship or job? Has that affected the times that you’re eating, how and what you’re eating, and who you’re eating with? Those changes in eating nutritionally can affect your weight,” Weiner said. “If you used to eat with other people, you maybe had more vegetables. Alone, you may be eating less healthy foods.”
Parsley has many, many health benefits, including reducing effects of diarrhoea, improving digestion, regulating the menstrual cycle and increasing the rate of urination, which means that more matter is expelled from the body, including more calories and thus reducing weight loss. The diuretic aspect of parsley juice also means that it detoxifies the body faster than other drinks, and acts as an appetite suppressant making you feel fuller than you are.
We asked Lynn Bode, a personal trainer with over 13 years of experience and the owner of the online fitness program WorkoutsForBrides.com, for her advice on how brides can keep their expectations and workouts in check before their big day. Her advice (featured on the following pages) can help you look and — more important — feel your best from "Yes, I Will" to "Yes, I Do."

As I’ve mentioned, fat burners are designed to maximise the work of your diet and exercise routine. While they can potentially help to increase the amount of fat you oxidise and turn to fuel, they do this by giving you a big energy boost. Unfortunately, much like a blood sugar spike, you mind find yourself feeling really fatigued after your workout.
Obesity is like that elephant investigated by the blind men in the Indian fable who arrive at different conclusions depending on whether they’re holding the trunk, the tusk, or the tail. Weight gain can be a result of many different, but often coexisting, issues, from metabolic factors and emotional problems to lack of exercise and overeating. Too often these issues are studied in isolation.
And another thing, if you went to the doctor depressed about your life and how miserable you feel, he may have given you Prozac.  Part of why you’re feeling upset is your weight, you tell him, and the fact that you can’t get it off.  Now, little did you know that those pills were going to single-handedly pack on another 20-40lbs.  What do you do now?  My program will teach you how to cope with depression using the natural resources you already have.
I have been taking the Lady Soma Fiber Cleanse (2 pills half hour before each meal) for a few weeks now, it did feel to me it took a few days to notice a difference. I did feel less hungry and could not finish any meal. I did have more energy as well and that is what I was looking for. I should of started with a Lady Soma Detox first, I believe I would of felt the benefits sooner if I had chosen that route in the beginning.
Endure the hard stuff: When faced with a setback or hardship some gym-goers simply throw in the towel and give up. The trick is to keep at it, endure, and outlast the setback. Eventually you will succeed. If you plateau in any aspect of your progress, make a pledge to stick with it, no matter how long it takes. The body isn’t a machine that operates under exact parameters. It will ebb and flow. You just need to stay the course.
I have had a life-long struggle with my weight. During high school, I was athletic but weighed around 160 pounds and maintained that weight during college. After college, I slowly lost weight and when I got married at 33, I happily weighed around 135 pounds. Then, a few of years later, after 2 back-to-back pregnancies, I maintained my weighed around 180 pounds and was unhappy with my body. I was living a blessed life – a supportive husband, two wonderful children and a good job.

Lauren Taylor is a Certified Holistic Health Coach who is successfully working with clients across the country to reach their health and personal goals. She became a health coach to fulfill her passion for nutrition and offers individualized health and nutrition coaching programs.  Visit www.yourhealthyeverafter.com to sign up for your free consultation or email Lauren at info@yourhealthyeverafter.com. 


Great question. We almost always get our grass-fed bones from the farmer’s market. We traveled around the country living out of an RV for the past year, and have been able to find great pastured beef bones at farmer’s markets just about everywhere we go. To make it easier, though, when you find a good source, stock up on the marrow bones and freeze them for later.
I’ve had a notion drilled in my head that breakfast is the most important meal of the day, and that one of the most important things to do to lose weight is eat a big breakfast, smaller lunch, and even smaller dinner. When you talk about ketogenic fasting, you say to eat dinner at 8:00pm and not eat the next meal until 12:00pm then next day. Is it really okay to skip breakfast?

High amounts of sodium can lead to belly bloating and there’s a good chance you are already getting more sodium than you need. (Psst! Get rid of bloating, fast, with these 24 Ways to Shrink Your Belly in 24 Hours.) To cut back on salt intake, Alexandra Miller, RDN, LDN, Corporate Dietitian at Medifast says to eat fewer processed foods like bread, pizza, and condiments. “Read the Nutrition Facts label to find how much sodium is in each serving,” she says. “Very Low Sodium is 35 milligrams or less per serving; Low-Sodium is 140 milligrams or less per serving; Reduced (or less) sodium is at least 25 percent less sodium per serving than the usual sodium level.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnTdPfsB_Xc
"Prior to getting engaged, I had also witnessed several of my friends in the process of getting ready for their weddings freak out about their weight. I think so many women want to feel their absolute best on their wedding day, and I can't blame them! With the pressure of 'all eyes on you,' it's easy to see how many women go to extremes to lose weight or get in better shape. Instead of putting pressure on myself before my wedding, I stayed committed to my regular training routine. Quite honestly, it helped me manage the stress leading up to my wedding day.
As you age, you lose muscle mass. But muscle mass is crucial for maintaining a healthy weight because it keeps your metabolism going strong. While the emphasis is generally on cardio exercise for belly fat loss, for older adults, lifting weights may be a more effective weight-loss strategy than a lot of cardio, which can further decrease muscle mass, according to a study in Obesity in 2017.

There were periods of time where I was training really hard, and eating clean, resting, and so on. During those periods, it would seem as though magically, those fat burners were amazingly working. Well would you look at that, Angel is taking fat burners, and he's losing weight. Those things must work, look at how much body weight he has already loss!
People naturally lose muscle after 40, especially women after menopause. Because muscle burns more calories than fat, this can slow down your metabolism and make it harder to shake those stubborn pounds. Strength-training exercises -- lifting weights or doing body-weight exercises, like push-ups and squats -- at least twice a week can help you keep those muscles. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GVZYDOBMXk
In addition to weight training, perform regular cardiovascular exercise to help you burn additional calories and expedite weight loss, including from your belly. Even if your gross weight on the scale doesn't change, you will find that the percentage of fat stored in your belly diminishes. Belly fat is some of the first fat you lose when you become more physically active.
Want to see those numbers on the scale get smaller? Try adding some fish to your meal plan. Research published in Obesity Reviews reveals that adding some omega-3s to subjects’ diet helped them lose more weight, keep it off longer, and limit those nagging hunger pangs. For women over 40, omega-3-rich fish, like salmon and tuna, are a particularly good choice; a study published in the journal Menopause suggests that adding them to your diet may reduce your risk of hot flashes, too.
Want an easy way to stick to the plan? Use the MyPlate Guide from the USDA. It is simple and it works. The dinner plate icon is a smart guide to use when planning your meals. Print it out and and use it as your guide when it is time to eat. Many fitness and health experts follow this clean eating plan (or one just like it) and it helps them get lean and fit in less time. 
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The short answer is, not much. But changes can and do occur. A carb is still a carb, but you may need to adjust a few things in order to compensate for things like a lessened recovery ability and metabolic rate. The good news is, you aren’t the average sedentary Joe. The fact that you train and eat right will go miles toward keeping you on the right side of the curve for your age. Supplement companies all clamor to sell you products promising a healthier, more youthful existence. But the reality is that nothing will affect your overall health and wellbeing more than proper eating and exercise.
That zero-calorie diet soda is its own death sentence. But as for that cream-and-sugar coffee every morning? That’s 80 extra calories, and that’s if you’re ordering normal coffee and not one of those tricked-out frappa-cappa-whipped-something drinks from your favorite coffee shop that have a couple hundred cals. Many fruit juices, energy drinks, and even big-chain smoothies are loaded with calories. To indulge your urge to drink something tasty without sabotaging your ability to be slim, try one of these 25 Best Weight Loss Smoothies!
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This “lone gunman” theory that puts sugar at the center of everything that’s gone wrong with our diet sounds convincing, and it certainly sells a lot of books. But so far, the evidence is underwhelming that sugar is much or any worse than other refined carbs like white flour. However, since so many of the junk calories we consume are in the form of sugar, it deserves its newfound status as public-health enemy number one. (So long, saturated fat.)
Belly fat is, in fact, the colloquial term for abdominal fat. According to medical experts, belly fat can be potentially dangerous. Excess of it can lead to a number of health problems including heart diseases, high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, a decrease in the level of HDL or good cholesterol, and can even lead to strokes or sleep apnea. You need to combat this problem before it gets too late.
Thanks for the response, Abel! I do consume homemade bone broth, but until recently it wasn’t on a daily basis. I would make it and use it up, then maybe wait a week or two before making the next batch. Now I’m making it every few days so I always have it on hand and drink some everyday or make a soup with it that I have a bowl or two of everyday. Probably too soon to realize the full benefits yet. I do use bulletproof collagen in my smoothies also, although I will probably be switching to Dr. Axe’s collagen powder for reasons I won’t go into here.
In addition to weight training, perform regular cardiovascular exercise to help you burn additional calories and expedite weight loss, including from your belly. Even if your gross weight on the scale doesn't change, you will find that the percentage of fat stored in your belly diminishes. Belly fat is some of the first fat you lose when you become more physically active.
Drinking several cups of tea a day can help shrink your belly fat. Green tea is a great choice, but tea made from the leaves of Camellia sinensis, such as oolong tea and the unfermented white tea, are just as effective. Catechins in the tea speed up metabolism and increase fat burning by stimulating the liver, especially when combined with exercise. Other fat-burning teas are peppermint tea, which is known for its appetite suppressing effect, and Red Rooibos tea, which has a flavonoid called Aspalathin that lowers the kind of stress hormones that promote weight gain. Here’s a list of all the best teas for weight loss. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7IB1AUnLuLs
Eager to shave off a few pounds after your 40th birthday? Start by opting for organic produce instead of the conventionally-grown stuff. A review in Interdisciplinary Toxicology summarized that organochlorine pesticides can alter the levels of thyroid hormone in the human bloodstream, potentially increasing weight gain and causing thyroid health issues. Considering that older women are already at an increased risk for thyroid problems, like hypothyroidism and Hashimoto’s thyroiditis, it’s a good idea to go organic ASAP.
If you don’t have an established exercise routine, simply walking is the best first step toward weight loss. “Walking is a pretty good entry point for people,” says Gagliardi. This is particularly true if you have been out of the gym for a while and want to ease back into a workout routine. One small study published in The Journal of Exercise Nutrition & Biochemistry found that obese women who did a walking program for 50 to 70 minutes three days per week for 12 weeks significantly slashed their visceral fat compared to a sedentary control group.
Capsaicin may be helpful for increasing metabolism and fat burning, but in longer-term studies, people tended to regain weight lost with the help of capsaicin supplements just as quickly as those taking a placebo. Participants in the study stopped consuming the full dose because of its strong flavor, notes the 2007 American Journal of Physiology -- Regulatory, Integrative and Comparative Physiology review article.
Evaluate your lifestyle to make sure that a change in your daily habits isn’t affecting your weight. Consider getting an activity tracker to find out how many calories you burn each day and make sure that your energy balance isn't out of whack. You can even evaluate your caloric expenditure throughout the day and add activity during the times when you tend to be more sedentary. Simple changes can make a big difference in your metabolism.

You may have an apple-shaped or a pear-shaped body structure. Accumulation of fat occurs differently for different people, it actually depends on the body structure. For those whose bodies are pear-shaped, the fat tends to accumulate in the lower part of the body, like the buttocks. But for those whose bodies are apple-shaped, your body tends to store fat around the middle section, thus resulting in fat accumulation around the belly. You must know that there are two types of belly fat – visceral, which accumulates around the abdominal organs, and subcutaneous, which occurs between the skin and abdominal wall.

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"Even though a bride may feel she is drowning in all the planning involved in a wedding," Bode adds, "it will be very advantageous to also [create a detailed] weight-loss strategy." Get granular: Research recipes and plan meals in advance; schedule workouts in your calendar and keep them as you would any other appointment. As you're choosing your regimen, keep your expectations in check. "A good rule of thumb is that you can lose between 4 and 8 pounds in a month," Bode says. "If your wedding is only two months away, don't fool yourself and cause unnecessary stress by vowing to lose 40 pounds. This will set you up for failure and probably lead to complete abandonment of your weight-loss efforts. Determine the true timeline you are working within and accept the realistic number you can achieve."
Eating sugar, especially refined sugars added to sweeten food and beverages, is a leading contributing factor to visceral fat. The glucose and fructose that come from sugar are simple carbohydrates that get quickly absorbed into the bloodstream and metabolized to release energy. When there’s excess intake, they get converted to glycogen to be stored in fat tissue. Eating a lot of sugar also spikes your blood sugar, which triggers insulin to be released in large amounts, potentially leading to a condition called insulin resistance that’s associated with metabolic syndrome. Cutting out all sweetened foods and drinks, including fruit juices, is one of the best things you can do today to lose belly fat fast. Learn to enjoy small amounts of natural sweeteners such as fresh fruit, raw honey, dates, and coconut crystals. Don’t be tempted by these other 15 of the worst foods for your belly.

Diabetes is the new epidemic of our culture.  The effect of Obesity on diabetes is a one-to-one relationship.  Diabetes is really the inability for the body to metabolize sugar.  The fatty tissue actually makes insulin unavailable for the body to digest sugar.  This causes the sugar levels to rise pound for pound with the extra weight.  The real problem is that if you use insulin shots to control sugars, they cause weight gain!  This is a round-and-round game that ends in Kidney failure, amputation, heart attack and so on.

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11:00AM: Giant salad with fresh organic greens, sprouts, nuts/seeds, cherry tomatoes, cucumber, and feta cheese drizzled with olive oil. Or if you’re short on time, whip up a green smoothie blended up with organic veggies like broccoli, celery, spinach, cucumber, fresh mint leaves, olive oil, soaked chia seeds, purified water, and a dash of stevia.
Losing weight as you age isn’t always about how much time you’re spending at the gym, but what you’re doing while you’re there. If you’re frustrated with your rate of weight loss, try adding some high-intensity interval training to your routine; a review of research published in the Journal of Obesity reveals that it’s a more effective means of improving overall fitness, increasing lean muscle, and improving insulin sensitivity than traditional aerobic exercise.
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If you drink, try opting for red wine instead of white and you might just find yourself a few pounds —and inches— smaller in no time. Red wine is a good source of resveratrol, which has been deemed effective at reducing belly fat and improving memory retention in the aging brain. Even better, a 2014 study published in the Journal of Translational Medicine reveals that resveratrol supplementation was effective at improving hormonal issues in overweight postmenopausal women, potentially bolstering your weight loss efforts.
Here's what I consumed for breakfast on my wedding day: I had the antioxidant yogurt and seed bowl as well as black coffee; for lunch I ate a simple salad with grilled chicken provided by my venue; and for snack, I went with a GoMacro bar. After the ceremony, my husband and I sat in a separate room and ate every single appetizer (including pork buns, pulled BBQ chicken, mini grilled cheese sandwiches, and more!) and drank champagne. Diet. Over. As the evening went on, I enjoyed the goat cheese salad (CHEESE!), the short rib and sweet potato entree, wedding cake, homemade cookies, and apple cider donuts. There was pizza at our afterparty. I ate that, too.
If you eat healthy and exercise regularly and still can’t lose weight, your thyroid might not be working like it should. This happens in about 5% of people, and it's most common in women and people over 60. In addition to weight gain, it can also cause fatigue, joint or muscle pain, and depression. Medications can help, so get it checked if you think it might be an issue.

7. Limit alcohol. It lowers inhibitions, making it more likely that you'll forget about your nutrition plan and overindulge. Plus, alcohol alone is pretty high in calories. If you can relax and de-stress without drinking at all, you'll be better off. If you must drink, nurse your glass slowly, choose diet-friendly drinks, and limit the number of servings. Oh and yes, alcohol does contain calories, so add every drink to your Nutrition Tracker.
If you're dehydrated, it can be hard to tell if you're hungry or just thirsty. If you're craving a mid-day snack, have a glass of water and wait a few minutes before reassessing how hungry you really are. Water also helps food move through your digestive system, lessening feelings of bloating. It's a good idea to keep a water bottle with you throughout the day. Add in cucumber slices or fresh fruit to infuse flavor.
Have you ever decided to skip a meal to cut back on your daily calorie count? Despite saving a few calories in the moment, this strategy almost always backfires. When you skip breakfast, or any meal, you'll begin to experience excessive hunger that can lead to craving unhealthy foods—and lots of them. You may also eat faster than you normally do after skipping a meal, causing you to miss the warning signs that you're full and resulting in overeating.
I’m not going to spell out an exact eating plan, as everyone will have their own particular requirements. But I will list a few general guidelines to help you devise your own plan. These are generalized suggestions, and may not be suited for every individual over 40, but they are the key points that I’ve found helpful throughout my time north of 40:

Dr. Church and Martin are publishing a new study with a startling conclusion. Study subjects who exercised a lot (220 minutes a week on a treadmill while being watched like hawks by the Pennington staff) didn’t lose any more weight than people who exercised about half as much. The study authors used some fancy lab science (the “doubly labeled water” technique to measure energy intake and expenditure; don’t ask!) to arrive at a simple finding. People who exercise a lot feel that they’ve “earned” the right to eat significantly more calories. Sorry, it doesn’t work that way.


Sex appeal and body confidence doesn't need to fade with age. Many women say that their 40s are the sexiest decade. Often, women experience renewed confidence, professional success and a more sultry sense of self during this decade. So why not use it to your advantage? If you're trying to reshape your body or lose weight in your 40s, a renewed sense of confidence and sex appeal will help you reach your goals.
Very soon, I’ll stand up in front of the graduating class of my former high school and give the commencement speech. I’ll focus on the usual “work hard” and “follow your dream” themes, but, in reality, I just want to shout out to all those 17-year-olds — “have that ice cream cone, you’ll still fit into your skinny jeans tomorrow! ” Or “it’s OK to skip a workout, your muscle mass will help you bounce back!”
There are different types of HIIT but an easy one to begin with is to simply warm up for 3 minutes on an elliptical machine or by walking.  Then work out for 30 seconds so that at the end of the exercise you feel satisfied.  Reduce the speed to slow down to a moderate pace.  Do this 7 more times or for total 8 intervals. Start with one interval and as your body is ready to take more increase the intervals.  Studies show that HIIT to be the absolute premier cardio for weight loss and optimal health as compared to longer, traditional cardio.
So, what is a fat burner? As explained in the journal Obesity Reviews, the term "fat burner" is used to describe "nutrition supplements that are claimed to acutely increase fat metabolism or energy expenditure, impair fat absorption, increase weight loss, increase fat oxidation during exercise, or somehow cause long-term adaptations that promote fat metabolism."[1] However, that's a wide range of functions, and in pill form especially, it can mean a lot of things! So, let's dig a little deeper. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fbz8yhJUF7M
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